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how can you get your mind off your bank teller recently i have a bank account and i own a debit card and mostly on fridays i go to the bank to deposit my check and sometimes i get cash back and at the bank is this beautiful charming young lady who mostly helps me deposit my check and sometimes she calls me dear and i sort of feel attracted to her but i know i cannot go on a date with her becuase i believe she is married and i wouldnt want my mind to be tortured by jealousy so what can i do and Kittenlover2000 i hope you get this in your advice column and hopefully you can give me some great advice on fixing this problem thank you
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Forget about her in that way. I'm sorry to be blunt, but she is married so should be off limits!
I know the thought of dating a married lady may excite you, but think of the implications it could have on her family, husband and even kids if she has any? All for what?
We all can get wooed over by shop assistants from time to time. After all they're trying to get you to use their service or buy their product. So of course they're going to be charming! But it doesn't mean they fancy us in that way. Its their sales pitch, part of their job description.
I know this may not be what you want to hear. But you have to tell yourself you can not be with this married woman, or even date her, because she's not on the market anymore!
But there are plenty more fish in the sea as they say! ]
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