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first time sex pain
hey guys im From kenya 22, ready ,sooo ready for sex but the pain i felt everytime i try is insane and i just cant take it, my boyfriend tried fingering me and i still couldnt take the pain...im trying to look for all possible ways i can do reduce the pain that i even thought of taking weed before i do it?i know its crazy but i seriously need advice and i need it ASAP....GIRLSSSSSS .
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Have you ever used a tampon or tried and it didnt fit? If that or a finger does not fit in, it could be that your problem is an issue with your hymen. Instead of being a smaller ring of tough elastic skin around the circumferance (the edges of the circle of the vagina) the hymen has a strip going down the middle of the opening to the vagina, actually creating 2 much smaller holes. I have heard that this makes it barely possible for a finger or tampon to fit without causing extreme pain. If you have this condition which is called a septate hymen, (look up pictures on line to see what I am talking about. You or boyfriend may be able to see it if you know what you are looking for. It would be the most common reason for nothing being able to fit in. Otherwise, everyone will tell you to relax, use lots of lube. But if nothings helping, its the hymen or perhaps another issue which in either case, seeing a gynecologist can take care of. For the septate hymen, they numb the local area and snip away the extra strip of flesh. I advice to go see your doctor as this isn't something you can fix on your own if you have it. You might be able with extreme pain and lots of bleeding to rig one end of the hymen loose but you'll still have the other end still attached.
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