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Well I met this guy in July before I went away on holiday and we get a long great like there was chemistry from the first moment and he tells me he's attracted to me and what he likes about me and how he still wants to get to know me and what not.
It's just when we're away from eachother it's a different thing you know? We hardly text, like he would hardly start an conversation with me, not saying he doesn't cause every now and then he does but whenever I see him online on whatsapp I always think he would talk first.. Don't get me wrong when we're together out in public he treats me like I'm his girlfriend and I love it cause it shows he's interested in me and he's been honest with me so far..
It just puts me off that he hardly talks to me through texts and if we do text it never lasts long, when I was away he would message me first all the time at the start.. I just want to know why he acts so different when we're not together? I don't expect him to text me constantly but to me when he doesn't speak it just shows me he's acc not interested in me and it's really getting to my head, and I wish he was more sweet with me, maybe every guy is diff but I don't know.. Before I left everything was feeling great I couldn't be more happier but I don't know now mmmm please what should I think or do about this it's really bothering me?!!! Please :(
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If your on his mind, he would message you.
If he was thinking about you he would message you.
Since he is not, hes not feeling that way.
Truth is, people have different lives, if he says he likes you and what not he probably isn't lying, he just has other stuff going on.
I get asked about this kind of situation all the time. I think what some people don't take into perspective is that people have stuff going on in life. They are doing there own thing. maybe he is in a time in his life where he is use to being on his own and he does not thrive for the attention for others.
You have to determine, is he talking to other people all the time and just ignoring you? or is he just not that involved with internet/messaging type things.
Its hard to exactly tell what a person is going through or what type of person they are. Some people are still old school where they prefer to be with someone, oppose to messaging/texting someone.
Maybe he jut doesn't want to annoy you or push things.
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There are two possible reasons to this.
First, He doesn't like you
Might sound harsh but there's a possibility. If you think he's not really sincere about your relationship, try to ask him. If he replies yes, that means he is, cause there's nothing he can gain from saying yes.
Second, He's feeling the same way
Just cause we're guys doesn't mean we don't have fears. Sometimes, we're scared of starting a conversation because it might end it all. So just like you, he might be letting you do the initiative. Who knows? Maybe both of you are just staring at the blinking line in each other's chatbox.
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