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I need to ask something
Ok so I have been talking to a boy who is 18 and living with his grandma and i'm 19 and his grandma supposedly broke his phone and so he will not be able to talk to me until he gets a new phone and so he said we needed to take a break until he gets the new phone so does that mean that he is going to break up with me or is he really telling the truth.
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If he's not long distance away, I don't see why you can't still see each other in person. Or, if either of you have access to a laptop or desk top computer or even use on at the library, you should be able to keep in touch on several social sites. You would need to ask him for clarification as to what he meant by 'take a break', and not jump to conclusions that break means break up. His choice of words and language or speech may mean one thing to him and mean something totally different to you. Thats how the biggest of misunderstandings happen between two people. What a perfect situation to learn in. YOu do need to learn to ask when you don't understand what someone says cus the day it happens to be your boss at work and you end up taking it wrong and actually doing the wrong thing, that is not a good situation for you.
I can see him easily meaning break as in laying off the phoning and texting for a while. If he did not give any alternative ways to keep in touch with you, it could be he didnt think of them or just doesnt have the means to do so. If he lives close by and you know where, you could go over and try to have a talk to find out if there's something else the two of you can do to keep in touch. Worst case scenerio, if he actually really meant that he is breaking up with you and used a broken phone as the excuse to ease into it, then he's a coward and a douchebag and you don't really want to settle for less and hang out with someone like him anyways.
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