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I want to die.please help me.my husband praises my sisterinlaw I just can't bare.I can die instead. I explained this to him.but he did not change.I'm working and have 2kids.so I'm always busy.and tht lady has no kids and stays at home.he praises for everything. I want to kill myself
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Your husband is being an ass and you can tell him I said so. You have given him 2 wonderful children. You work to support him and your family plus you keep the house. He wants all that and still expects you to be like his sister. I have two words for him and they are not happy birthday. He is not worth dying for.
As a retired firefighter please think of what this will mean for your children. First we arrive when someone calls 911. When the EMTS and Paramedics work to revive you the children will go to the nearest firefighter and grab their hand they will look up at us and say, "Please don't let mommy die." We look to the paramedic who shakes their head and we take the children to another room while they inform your husband or police officer. Is this what you want for them? Is this how you want them to remember you?
Your children will now be left with this asshole who thinks his sister walks on water. He does not deserve you or your children. There are better ways to handle this situation and there is help for you to get out of this situation. While your husband may not be physically beating you he is mentally abusing you. You are in all respects a battered woman.
Please do as I am asking and place a call to the National suicide Prevention Lifeline. No matter what problems you are dealing with, they want to help you find a reason to keep living. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7.
You are working your employer may have an Employee Assistance Program (EAP). If they do; contact them for assistance with counseling and help battered women. You do not have to kill yourself to get away from him. There is help for you in getting away from him with your children to a safe and secure place where he cannot find you while you seek the protective orders and divorce decree, if you so choose, to make leaving him permanent. All calls to the lifeline and the EAP program are totally confidential.
This is the better way to solve your problem. This is better for you and better for your children. You let the courts and the lawyers handle the business of support while you take care of the children. Your husband cannot get out of paying child support the courts will see to that. As a battered spouse all the help you need is there for the asking all you need to do is pick up the phone and make the call. Suicide is not the answer it is the wrong solution.
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Imagine what happens that morning you kil yourself:
Your children start crying, tehy don't understand what's going on. Their precious, adored, kind mother is dead laying in a pool of blood.
Your husband is shocked, never would've thought you would do this. He realizes everything he had done wrong, how horrid he was. He breaks into sobs wishing he could reverse time.
Your husband might go mad about your death, maybe abusing his own children. Just causing their little brains to scar in ways they shouldn't be.
And your parents. One of their daughters, does something so unexpected. They weep day and night. not being able to get over the loss.
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Woah woah Woah, do NOT do anything permanent! I don't entirely understand what is going on, so please just talk to me or one of us about what is bothering you. You can send me a message explaining what is going on exactly. You have kids and people that need you. Do not kill yourself, please talk to someone. There are even hotlines. This is one: 1800-273-8255. Please. There are alternatives and options.
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