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I want to die.please help me.my husband praises my sisterinlaw I just can't bare.I can die instead. I explained this to him.but he did not change.I'm working and have 2kids.so I'm always busy.and tht lady has no kids and stays at home.he praises for everything. I want to kill myself
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Imagine what happens that morning you kil yourself:
Your children start crying, tehy don't understand what's going on. Their precious, adored, kind mother is dead laying in a pool of blood.
Your husband is shocked, never would've thought you would do this. He realizes everything he had done wrong, how horrid he was. He breaks into sobs wishing he could reverse time.
Your husband might go mad about your death, maybe abusing his own children. Just causing their little brains to scar in ways they shouldn't be.
And your parents. One of their daughters, does something so unexpected. They weep day and night. not being able to get over the loss.
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Ok i want to know how i can be immortal without making deals with satan and all his minions, being a vampire, etc. So how can i become immortal and live forever, but stay a certain age like 30 or something so i can do everything i want to. Any ways to be immortal? (link)
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The thiung is....
you can't become immortal.
Nothying is immortal, because very soon Satan and Demons will be detroyed. (Bible prophecies)
So you can't actually be immortal. Well without making tricky deals with Satan.
Sorry.
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I've always known that my husband was a little jealous when we were dating. He didn't want me texting other men or flirting, I completely understand that. Those are also my limits. We have only been married for a little over six months, and the growing jealousy towards my mother is starting to make us fight very badly. I am an only child to my mother, and at first she was clingy, but that isn't the case anymore. I spend maybe one day out of the week going to town with her, maybe to eat, and other than that I talk to her maybe twice a day. She suffers with bad anxiety, so if I go out of town, I shoot her an "I made it alive mother" text, which is just another thing that annoys him that I do for my mother to ease her mind. She is my best friend and more like a sister to me than a mom and it really hurts me and puts me in a awkward place when he throws fits about me seeing her or talking to her. If I'm not working, I am always home when he gets home from work, If he wants me to cook, I cook.. I try to please him in every way but right when my phone rings and its my mom, there goes our entire night. He has also done this if I go out of town without him to see family. He will call me the entire time I am there, and the one time I don't answer, I'm ignoring him and have no time for him. I love this man so much and I don't want such a petty thing to ruin our relationship. Please offer any advice that may help (link)
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Rahzie already answered the question, but I have some more advice about your mom.
You need to let her know that you can't spend time with her 24/7. She should have some counseling for her anxiety. Hang out with her two times a week, but let her know that you are ok when you wake and and when you go to bed.
For your husband, he needs to calm his nerves. Explain to him the issue and how it's making ypu feel. If he doesn't care about your mother, I say marriage counseling. And if he still acts the same way, then I sadly have to say take a break.
That's the advice I have for now.
Email me for more info and details about the issue at alwaysaiyana@gmail.com
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I am 24 and my boyfriend turns 26 in July. He is weird about having kids. For example, when we seriously thought I was pregnant the only reason why he wanted me to have an abortion was because he didn't think that we were financially stable enough for a child.
After we found out that I wasn't, I asked him whether or not having a baby with me would be that bad, if he had a full-time job and could support all of us. He said, "No, not at all." Just before mother's day this year, he joked, "You might be celebrating mother's day this time next year." Other times, he says he's never having kids.
While having a baby is out of the question for us right now because we cannot financially afford one, I would love to have his baby one day. Probably sooner than later, after we are more financially able to support ourselves.
The problem is that my mother is not a particularly loving mother. She is the type who wants to be the center of attention. I never had a cut or bruise on me from her, but she did hit me, and do things that I swear were done to hurt me. Over the years she has made up lies in an attempt to alienate me from other members of my family. When I call her out on them, it's as though they actually happened, and she gets angry at me for telling her that they are lies. Every time she had to do something for me, it was a complaint, and she is unhappy that I am a full-time student who hasn't held a job in over a year.
He really had no example of a good father either. Up until he was 9 years old, his grandfather alive and he would play sports with him. That's one of the reasons why my boyfriend loves to watch baseball, football and basketball so much.
His biological father was a heroin addict, who left him when he was two years old. For the next few years, up until he was 15, when his dad finally passed away, he saw him four times in his life.
Can we still be good parents, without a good example? (link)
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Yes you can! Absoluteley!
Being good parenst isn't about your budget, it's about your mind and heart.
Parenting is about how much you care and love your children. If you feel like you have too little money, search up baby things and see how much they cost.
If you can't buy a baby crib, make one or borrow one from a friend! Use OLD t-shirts for diapers!
You can do many things without money, as long as you have a roof over your head and at LEAST two meals a day, then your all good.
For more info email me at: alwaysaiyana@gmail.com
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I do competitive cheerleading and I love it a lot but since I am going into my sophomore year of high school I really want to focus on that. Also, it cost a lot of money and my family doesn't own that much. I was on a different team last year and I loved it so much. This year my heart isn't really in it and I dread going to practice. I want to quit so I don't have to worry about these things but I don't want to lose my friends and I also I don't want to end up regretting my decision to quit. What should I do? (link)
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Dear Jane,
This is a easy solution.
You quit.
If your heart truly isn't into vheer anymore, then you can stop. It will benifeit your family's budget and you can focuse more on graduating!
If your 'friends' break the friendship because of your descision. Then they aren't true genuine friends.
My computer battery is low so that's all I can say for now, email me for more advice alwaysaiyana@gmail.com
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