I dont see the other side of the world anymore. I only see the negative or bad side. I can see all the lies people told me its like seeing through them but you only see the negative. And the environment around me I feel like it was all a lie.
I dont know the truth anymore. I feel like that this world deserves to end with its society and all the lies.
What am i gonna do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health? rainhorse68 answered Tuesday August 18 2015, 4:08 am: The feelings you are describing are a those of alienation. The idea that your observations and experiences of life differ fundamentally from those of others, society in general and even your own previously held views. So all the dice are intrinsically loaded. The conventions of society are inhehrently flawed in some degree, less or more, but all flawed nonetheless. The world is full of duplicity and lies, everything is fake and phoney, and you can see through it? The premise of 'fairness' is a fantasy. This leads to a process known as 'existential nihilism'. The process of deconstructing, breaking down and negating (making zero, or negative) the world, and ouselves. Possibly in the belief that in doing so we can divine or distill some underlying pure, and true world, once we've cut through all the crap and lies? You might ponder these words of the German philosopher Nietzsche. “Every belief, every considering something true, is necessarily false because there is simply no true world.” So maybe the best way to handle the feeling is to stop looking for one? OK, the whole framework of scoiety is maybe a bit shaky, even positively crooked if we examine it too closely. But it has evolved such as it is. If the set of rules look a bit crooked, we're at least all playing by the same crooked set of rules. And we can, and do, manage to live our lives within them with a fair degree of satisfaction and pleasure. If we reject and abandon the rules we become simply a sociopath or anarchist. It's a big boat. You, and me, and everyone else are just along for the ride mate. Why rock it? So the advice has got to be just live your life and don't question it too deeply. [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
misspiggy answered Monday August 17 2015, 3:56 am: The bad side of life is certainly real. The world can be a terrible place. And it is full of lies. Take mirrors for instance. Due to defection, refaction, conflection and infliction, mirrors always make you look larger in the wrong places. (An important scientist at a big university in a famous place discovered this.) And cameras lie too, because of all kinds of strange optical things and complicated gizmos that break and give you the wrong shortstop or spoil the focus-pocus, and little hairs that get stuck inside and goo on the film.
That being said, sometimes life is pretty wonderful! Just like no one can deny that life can be awful, it is important to recognize that there are good parts to life as well. Depression tries to hide that good side, but I promise you, it is there.
Try teating some chocolate to temporarily boost your mood. That always works for moi. Just remember: never eat more than you can lift.
Ocalaphernella answered Sunday August 16 2015, 9:15 pm: Honestly I feel the same way about the world and society needing to end, but whether that is the right way to feel or not, is up for debate. I feel that everyone should have a realistic view of the world, but not necessarily negative. It sounds like it have depression, though. It's normal to feel this way after something negative has happened to you, it'll probably get better. Give it some time. If not, then I suggest you get your depression looked into. There are prescription meds, bu also natural alternatives. Also therapy and stuff like that. Everything in the world isn't a lie. The flowers aren't a lie and animals never lie. The trees aren't a lie and there are SOME honest people out there. But it's most human nature to be dishonest. The world Does suck. Just some things are nice in it. But those things are worth waiting, fighting, and looking for.
Hope this helps~ [ Ocalaphernella's advice column | Ask Ocalaphernella A Question ]
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