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Connective tissue disorder... insecurities
I have a physical disability.. It involves connective tissue disorder. I'm also overweight have been my whole life and it's really difficult to lose weight when your joints want to dislocate when you're working out..
Anyway.. My problem is.. My breasts. They're big, and saggy. I'm only 16.
I've gone through the whole eating disorder thing..lost 10 lbs. But I keep gaining muscle weight. And I end up hating myself more. I don't eat junk food, I work out but I'm stuck at 220 lbs. I keep gaining muscle and I hate my weight. I hate it so much..
Unfortunately, breasts are fat. Not muscle.
I don't know how to get thinner, how to make my breasts 'perkier'. I don't know. I'm standing at 5' 9" and the lowest I want to be is 155. I'm just at a loss.
Any tips on how I can make my breasts perkier and smaller?
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You mention having a disorder. Since I dont know if it may be related to your weight, best thing is to ask your doctor. When a person eats healthy and exercises, they may lose inches here and there but muscle weighs more on a scale than fat so you may not see a lower number. I would suggest use of a measuring tape to see if you are losing any inches.
Once you turn 18, you're an adult and can do as you wish. Just as there are surgeries to increase bust size, there are surgeries to decrease breast size. Insurance in the past used to only pay for a reduction and find it necessary if her weight of boobs was causing back problems due to being too top heavy. I worked in insurance, I've seen the photos. So for just to change the shape or make them look perkier, you're out of luck as far as insurance coverage on that. You'd have to save up your hard earned money for that. I would at this stage also like to point out that in case you're thinking of having at least one child some day, and that you might want to possibly breast feed, which is way healthier for an infant, then I would suggest waiting for any serious surgery on the breasts until after you are done having kids and breast feeding. If thats not a concern, then just research it carefully and save up and get surgery done.
I've gone to nudist places at times and have seen women of all types of body builds, the big boned women with some chub on them not seriously overweight, but looking big all the same, and those who are actually obese. Of two obese women for example, I found one to have a good self image and high self confidence and funny thing is, I found her to be the prettier of the two overweight women even though they were the same in looks. That taught me something that made sense when i later read information about when given a choice of a model type with low self confidence, and an average to heavy gal with high confidence, they chose the latter over the models. these would be men who wanted a female for the whole package deal, not just skin deep. If a guy bypasses you for your looks but you have a good self confidence, then he just eliminated himself as a possible man for you to consider. He's only concerned with beauty skin deep and as you know, we all age, get wrinkles and lose our youthfulness at some point. a Man who loves you for the whole package deal is not going to abandon you when you gain some weight. If you have any more questions, let me know. Otherwise, I wish you the best.
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