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Friend didn't make the team
Last year my friend convinced me to tryout for the field hockey team and everyone made the team. This year we are in high school an they had to make cut but she didn't get in. I'm goalie so I pretty much knew I was gonna get in because there were only 3 goalies and the other two are on varsity. But she plays field and she got cut and I feel bad because I only did this because she wanted me to and I don't even like to play I just want to stay in shape. But I don't know if I should quit because she didn't make it or stay in. Plus my dad thinks it would be good if I stayed playing. So should I stay or should I quit? And if I stay how do I make my friend feel better that she didn't make it?
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Well what is important is whether you want to keep playing and if you truly enjoy it. Because otherwise, there are other things you can do to stay in shape. You shouldn't base something in your life that is your decision on someone else if you truly enjoy it. If you really want to keep playing, then you should and your friend should understand. Just be sympathetic with your friend, and if your friend is really upset about it, just be there for her.
Hope this helps~
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