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I'm new to the dating world again...Does he like me?
Hi! My name is Brianna. I recently got out of a relationship of 4 years...so I'm a little lost with this "does he like me" stuff". I'll try not to make this too long. BUT HELP!
Alright, I'm in this internship. One of the other students and I basically began texting and you know, it seemed like it would be flirting. We would go to group lunches and stuff and text basically all of the time. But we decided to make this whole thing a secret because i'm the student coordinator for this internship (he's 22 and I'm 21). He invited me to his house after a few weeks and I said no because i hadn't really known him and I said I would prefer meeting alone for lunch or something. It's rather hard to meet because he works in a different city, commutes to a different city for his internship, and comes to my city for classes on Friday. Eventually, I decided to come over to his place because it's just hard to get together besides friday and I don't have my pwn place either...
I'm not looking for a realtionship either and we've expressed that to each other. But I'm not gonna lie, he's very well together, just graduated, attractive so I wouldn't mind if things worked and maybe i am getting some feelings...but I'll live if it doesn't happen. SO we had sex...a few times. it's fun making this a secret. But I wannt say he's catching feelings too? We had a work trip last week and basically hung out the whole time. even though he asked to keep this a secret, he moved 4 times on the bus to sit next to me, flirts with me like normal and he made a lame excuse to hang with me after the trip once everyone left. He said "where can I get an oil change?". It's like we hang out at his house and sit there like we're 12 and nervous. He comes up with the lamest exucses to text me and they form into conversations (usually questions about work
thats irrelevant). After taking him to a gas station since he wasn't from the area after the trip, we hung out there for like 10 minutes like idiots. Then sat in our cars and stared at eachother smiling at eachother like we didn't want eachother to leave for the next 5 minutes. like WHAT IS GOING ON! So I asked when would we hang out again WITHOUT a group of people and he said he was busy and had to drive home to kentucky. I'm like fine. But we act kind of secret in groups, but more and more hes a little more flirty, but then has moments where i feel like he's just not interested. He hasn't invited me back to his place, and i feel like i'm bugging him and don't want to. So how should i do this? Just let it go? or give him space. There's like 2weeks left of our internship anyway... one more thing...I've hung around him plenty now. He's not a slow texter from what I notice. At first, he would text back pretty quick. Now it's an hour or two or even several. Or sometimes it'll be fast, but mostly slow. Thoughts?
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Well it definitely seems like he likes you, or at least did. So I think what you should do is back off for a bit, and make him the one to wait and be kept in the dark for a bit. Start not texting him as much, seem nonchalance and what not. Give him and yourself a little space, and see if anything changes. If he just lets things go, or stays all backed-off like he has been, when he may not be interested anymore. But if he starts acting nicer or shows more interest, then yay.
Hope this helps~
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