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plan on surprising my guy friend?
hey! I have this guy best friend and him and I have feelings for each other and are really close. Lately, his car stopped working and he can't go anywhere and has to stay at home with his parents. He's talked about me coming over and seeing him but I rejected it. I really want to go over and surprise him but I'm not sure how to do it or what to expect. Any ideas?
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I don't think it's wise for you to "surprise him". Think of how badly that could go... Not to be the rain on your parade but, he may be in decent, it might be a time when his family doesn't want company, his parents may not be okay with you just "surprising him". I don't think there's anything wrong with visiting him but you should do it in a respectable way. And I don't think coming over without warning would be okay with his parents and maybe not even with him. Just being realistic here! Hoped that I could help.
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I don't know if I would do that since he may not be that chill with his for some reason very inattentive parents.
"Hello son this nice young lady showed up here...is this your teacher? What grade are you in again? Are you vaccinated??"
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Well, you might want to give a call to the parents before dropping by to make sure he's going to be at home or that they don't have other plans like having their own friends over. Let them know you feel badly about him not being able to see you cus of car not working and want to surprise him with a drop by visit. Guys are always happy with something to eat, as its been said the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. So when you have the all clear to go by, make sure you have baked him some cookies to take over and then just take them over and show up. If you don't bake, a store bought dessert works just as good. You don't have to have anything special planned to do once there or plans to go somewhere from there, just your presence is enough and while there the two of you can talk and decide how you want to spend your time.
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What's the surprise for? His birthday? You should give more information.
My suggestions are:
Get to his house.
Surprise him by turning off the lights (I suggest that you do it at night), It can be after he's in bed or asleep.
He may think that you've forgotten about this 'date' or whatever you had planned, he'll probably be pretty disappointed, so wouldn't he be really happy when he finds out that you haven't forgotten and planned a surprised party instead? That's why I suggest doing this when he's finally asleep, he'll probably be thinking that you won't go over by then.
Step two:
Try doing something cute, tie a ribbon to your hair or head and act like a present itself. I'm sure he'll laugh at that.
But.
Make sure to buy him something. It could be anything as long as you put your feelings into it but... don't buy anything too girly... it is for a guy after all.
And, be sure to ask his parents so you can get in their house, ask them to help you plan things out.
And what should you expect?
Expect the unexpected or don't expect anything. Expectations can ruin anyone's day/night, so I suggest not to have any, unless you want to feel disappointed.
If you can't do those things above.
Just try going over, ring his door bell and give him a hug or two. That won't be too difficult.
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