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I can't find out any Girl Friend for me.
HI! I am a Boy, whose doesn't have any Girl friend. I am from India. My age is 18+ . Our household is only 3 people with me, Includes my Parent and Me. I can't stay along. I want a best Girl friend or Life partner, who may help me to stay without along. I doesn't like these type of Life. I am felling a boring Life that is too bad. If anyone help me, You are Welcome. Thanks.
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i say go to parties with your friends, where there might be fun girls and start there! if you can meet someone whos a friend of a friend theyll know a little about her and can tell you if shes available and if she might like you and if they could hook you up with her.
the only way to meet someone is to get yourself out there and be friendly to women. usually a smile, kind eyes, and good conversation will really get girls interested at least and wanting to know more about you. then youll have a chance to show them the kind of person you are and that you are worth dating.
good luck ; )
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I understand you not wanting to be alone and your desire to find the person who will become your life partner. But these things take time. Its not as easy as going to the market and picking out vegetables for tonights dinner. By what you say, it sounds like you live with your parents. You may find a girlfriend but keep in mind, unless a girl doesnt mind living with her inlaws, a woman who marries usually wants to have a place of her own unless that is not the way it works in India. If you are planning on attending college or other form of further schooling and getting a good job, those are just as important to focus on. Do not be too eager at this stage to marry if you find a girl willing to date you. You need the experience of dating, usually several different people over a period of time so you can begin to learn what you are looking for in a girl. Beauty is all well and fine, but it takes more than beauty skin deep to keep a person interested in their sweetheart long term. So you need to figure out from dating what you do and do not like in a persons character, personality, their beliefs, etc.
As to where to find a girl, think about some things you like to do, then focus on joining clubs regarding those hobbies. take dance classes and see if there are any girls there needing a dance partner, Pretty much, there are women every where in your world, you just need to gain some confidence in how to approach and talk to a female. There are certain behaviors that can be scary to a female if observed in the guy. Lots of staring at without talking can make her feel creeped out. So it is better to attempt to start conversation. Try to avoid your first sentence being about how pretty she is. Its a given knowledge that a person will not approach a person to attempt to become friends if they are not attracted to the looks. Make conversation relevant to where you both are at the time, or perhaps what she is doing. If she is choosing fruit at the market, you could ask if thats her favorite and then mention yours. Ask if she can explain how to tell when the fruit is at its best. then say, I'm sorry, I haven't introduced myself, mY name is....and then ask for her name. If she is a socialable person she will respond. If she is too quiet, untrusting or suspicious she may not respond. But you want someone you can have conversation with. Keep practicing. Ask your mother for help on how to talk to girls. thats where it all starts.
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