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How do I know of this married man wants to have an affair with me?
So here it goes! There is this married man that comes into my office frequently. When he comes in he smiles at me and sits down and talks to me. We sometimes talk for long periods of time about our life, kids, spouses and his job or my job. We have discussed his income and mine and how he feels about his boss and even my boss. When I call and ask him to do something he is on it. I have never had to wait for him to get back with me. He even has gone in on a Saturday to complete his task for me When ever I call him and I ask how his day is he always says better now or trys to fit in a comment about me being cute or sexy. I pretty much the other day hinted to him the other day about having some fun and messing around and played it off like I was joking. He said it was just a little fun between friends. It has not changed anything between us at all. He has me puzzled, so you think he wants to mess around and does not want to scare me off or do you think he is a flirt and just likes the chase.
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This is a hard question to answer without knowing him or hearing what he actually says to you.
I was a salesman for over 35 years. My job took me into designer showrooms where the staff were always pretty women. Did I flirt with them or have fun with them while I was trying to sell things to them yes. Did I try to make them feel like they were the most important customer I had? OF course I did it is how you keep someone as a customer.
Was I looking to have an affair with any of these women, no. Was there an opportunity to have an affair with any of them? I'm sure there was if I was to push my flirting beyond where I did, but I didn't. For I was and I am very happily married. Did any of them try to go beyond the fun flirting? One or two did and I just let it pass.
My question to you is; if you are both married with kids and living with your spouses. Why would you want to ruin your marriage,possibly ruin a great friendship as well as a business partner for a few minutes of illicit sex? One other question is it possible you are reading more into his flirting and his customer service than is actually there? If this gentleman is a sales representative part of his job is to make you feel as if you are the only person in the world that is important to him and you are when he is with you. If he has accomplished this with you then he is a good salesman and you should not ruin this relationship by trying to have an affair with him.
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