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having feelings i want to push back
my brain is very dysfunctional,
also, sometimes i wait for like half a year to talk about something. being direct is rare for me (in a normal conversation).
when ever i see people function properly, i get SO jealous. and whenever someone talks very directly i get intimidated and also a little jealous too.
when people tell me about their issues i get mad because i have issues too.
it's like if someone said 'im lonely', inside i'm like 'i'm lonely too, but you have all your friends to comfort you. dont bother me' but i say 'aw'
and i feel i turn the subject to myself a lot
how do i stop being jealous of peopl whose brain works better? and how to stop being angry at other peoples issues?
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You constantly compare yourself to others. When you compare yourself to others, someone is gonna come out on top and its usually not gonna be you.
This will lead to jealousy and envy. It might also lead to you deciding that you're better than some people. Which is not good either.
You have to accept yourself as you are, faults and all. Accept others as they are, faults and all. Nobody is perfect. When you do that, the need to compare yourself to others will fade cause it won't be important anymore.
The mentality that "something is wrong with you" (your brain more specifically). Is very bad because it makes you feel inferior to others with "normal" brains. This mentality can only lead to bad things. Something is wrong with ALL OF US. Nobody is perfect. Sometimes the people we envy are not happy or nice people. No need to beat yourself up cause you are not someone else.
I'm thinking you get angry at other people's issues cause you feel YOUR issues are bigger and don't really care to hear about their so called "problems". Like a person complaining that their clothes don't fit cause they lost so much weight. Meanwhile his fat friends might wanna tell them to shut the hell up. While other people's problems may seem small compared to our own problems, they are still their problems to them and don't really care about yours. (as much as you care about theirs). But to them, they're real. As real as yours are to you.
So stop comparing yourself to others. Accept yourself as you are and stop comparing other people's issues with yours.
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well to tell you the truth i most of the times get angry when people start talking to me about issues i do not even care,but i try to be as friendly as possible.just try not to be very stiff or you can even just tell the person that you do not have time or something without hurting them.and if many people come to you then have you ever wondered why?if not,you should definitelly!maybe people think you are trustworhy.that is a good thing!otherwise you can always work on it.keep up with the conversation and try to express yourself.be real though.just to know there will always be someone better than you!and i am not saying that to make you feel bad about yourself.i am saying it because it is the truth and it is valid for each and every one of us.do not compare yourslef to others!that is always a bad thing.that is the way you were born and the only thing you can do is accept it and try to be a better you.-xoxo hope this helped
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