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School's play
theres this guy from my school and he's pretty hot and popular. he finds me attractive and he said he'd hook up with me.
I want to kiss him but I've never kissed anyone (I'm 16. I swear im not ugly or a nerd lmao).
Should i tell him before hooking up or just let it happen? I don't want him to think that im a bad kisser.
Im just so scared cus i want this to work and everyone says we've got some short of connection.
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I chuckle thinking back to before my first kiss, realizing I had all the same thoughts. Guess what, i think most of us do. However kissing comes naturally. If the chemistry is there, that excitement and strong draw to each other, then instincts take over the moment your lips meet and the kiss changes and evolves pretty much on its own without you having to put any thought into it.
I will say this, the more you dwell on the thought of the fear of maybe being a bad kisser, the more that thought process will prevent you from taking the step to actually have yur first kiss. So try not to dwell on it and you'll be just fine.
No there's no reason to say anything before hand. If you become a couple and long after you're both comfortalbe and have a level of trust to share certain things, you might share how you felt before hand. I did that with my first guy. He told me I was a very good kisser from the first one, never thought it lacking.
the only kisses that can really fall flat and not be good are not due to inexperience but a lack of chemistry between the two people, in that case, its feels to each person more like being kissed romantically by a sibling. and that is a feeling of 'yuck'.
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