So this lady in my apartment we talk sometime I've known her for a while now but haven't really talk to her but one day I had the guts to talk to her so lately we have been talking so one day I went up to her got her number 2days ago called her up at around 6 she didn't pick up her phone but about 20 minutes later she called 2 left a message 2 yesterday when she called back I was too busy to called back so today at around 7 called 1 but she didn't pick the phone my thinking was no big deal cause I see her around in the apartment but my question is was it too soon to call back or was it just rigth
Why call when you can just go to her apartment and actually talk to her in person!
Awkwardness will just be there if you let it. But, it seems it's already happening. Afraid not my friend. It's will power you need. not just guts. go to her apartment, knock on her door and say Hello, can I ask if you're available for coffee sometime? When I say go to her apartment. I say ask for her time, not barge in to her apartment just to talk, that will just make it more awkward and a bit disrespectful of her space.
missundersmock answered Wednesday May 13 2015, 3:16 am: I have to be honest here and say that it can really complicate things to get mixed up with your neighbors when living in close quarters. If something should happen and the two of you end up NOT being friends, things could get REALLY awkward fast.
Social norms are different when you are a neighbor so you will need to really get to know each others boundaries. I dont think it was too soon to call back no but please be aware that if things go bad that things could go REALLYYYY bad and you'd be stuck having to live next door to her until you or her choose to move. ((just something to consider))
ive lived in the same 8 unit apartment complex for the passed 5 years and the people here mostly just keep to themselves for some reason. No one really talks with each other besides a "hello" or "how ya doin?" unless its absolutely needed. [ missundersmock's advice column | Ask missundersmock A Question ]
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