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Facebook says she's in a relationship but doesn't act like it
I work with this lady i am really interested on her but just that one thing thats keeping me away from her is that Facebook status it say in a relationship when i work with her her action doest indicate that she's in a relationship all the go signal that i can think of is there i know when your in a relationship you would know just base on her action i know ladys would mention it you would just know with her none body language everything a go signal one time i showed that one of the parts of my surfboard i surf you know one time i said one of the hostess wants to learn how to surf so then when i said that its like a beam of light came out of nowhere i don't know bc she was jealous or that i didn't ask her first or she just want to learn how to surf i don't know anyways she automaticly ask me to teach her how to surf then when she was walking away she then said your gonna take me how to surf i that point when i was talking to her she was loughing when i know its not even funny the other time is when i showed her a picture of my friends we were having a party she then goes wow!!!that look so fun she then goes why was i not invited!!!!all i buying signal right but that Frekken Facebook status what is that all about
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A lot of people keep details of their private life private. They dont necessarily talk about family or people they are with at work. It doesnt pertain to the job. You can tell her that you didnt invite her surfing or to a party before in the event she was with someone. Tell her you didnt want to seem inappropriate.
Her Facebook page is her private space. Unless she invites you to it I wouldnt mention it. It will make her question what you were doing on it and may have her take a negative view. Also, the in a relationship status bar may be true but could be outdated. I know some people msy also use it if they dont want one either or to deal with people who may.
All I would do is mention the surfing and party and tell her you didnt invite her because you werent sure whether her significant other would object. The thing is maybe all she sees you as is a co-worker or nice guy. Pursuing her beyond that would be bad. If there is no signal of her showing interest move on.
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If she gave you her Facebook address then its not like you're secretly doing any investigative work on her. Just tell her you noticed on her FB page that she was in a relationship. Ask about it. Maybe she recently broke up and forgot to change it.
You won't know until you ask.
Now if she didn't agree to take u on as a Facebook friend and you just looked up her name, found her page and the info wasn't restricted but open to public, then you might not want her to know you were checking up on her because some people can get pretty creeped out by that.
To ask your question, you'd have to make up a story as to how you came across her page. Perhaps looking to see if you could find all the kids from a group you hung out with in high school and the girl has same first name as her and same first two letters of last name and in going through list you saw her profile and looked at it. You saw she was in a relationship but had no idea as she doesnt speak of a boyfriend.
Then wait a moment as if the thought just came to you. 'In fact, this makes me wonder why you have wanted to be invited and didn't mention a boyfriend to bring along. Are you really in a relationship?
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