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my bestfriend replaced me roughly...
If it wasnt for his girlfriend... I wouldnt have known. My bestfriend of three years (we're both boys by the way) told her that he found a new bestfriend and that she could never tell me. She was enraged at him, so she told me about the replacement. I talked to him and he admitted. I cried a river and he told me these exact words "Alam mo na na mangyayari to. Pwede ba, wag mo nang dagdagan problema ko." (You should've expected this. Please, I have too much problems for your drama) What should I do?
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This is difficult to answer because we dont know how the friendship between you was, or if your friend was feeling already like he was tired of you but didnt feel like cutting things off yet.
By the way he said "you should have expected this" it sounds like he was already "done" with you and just didnt tell you, which is very unfair to do to someone whos supposed to be a friend but there seems to be a huge difference these days of what is considered to be a "friend" and what is not. Sometimes people who have never really had a good friend before or dont have good people/communication/understanding skills will not be able to REALLY be a friend and try to work through whatever issues it is you might between each other. Alot of times people will just cut off contact totally even after being friends for YEARS, this just depends on the person.
The best thing you can do is move on and make new friends, if your friend really cared about you he wouldnt have just bluntly did what he did. to ME that says "i never really cared about you in the first place".
i hope you can find a new friend who will care about you more.
good luck
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