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confused about what to do
I made out with this guy who happens to be my crush, we are not going out tho( dating) I just found out recently that he is going out with so many other girls in my class and that's how he started with them so I guess I am the next victim what do I do? After we made out I realised I didn't like him after all tho and now he is all over me as if he likes me just pretence. (18. female)
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If you don't like him that way anymore, then try to tell him to back off a little bit, tell him you only want to be friends. If he does accept that, maybe he only wanted you for sex. If hes dating, or dated most of the girls in your class then hes probably just a player. If you really don't know what his intentions are then get to know him a little bit better, don't get sexually involved with him because most likely he is gonna use you and break your heart and sometimes it can even ruin your reputation. He could say that all you wanted from him was sex or even post nudes of you all over the internet. Be careful with what you do, my best answer would be to stay away from him, if you have no real feelings for him its no loss for you right, and you shouldn't get involved with someone you don't know that well. Get to know but keep a safe distance that you won't get hurt. Good Luck!
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So I guess you're asking if you should let him know that you know about him? If so, telling him won't make him change his behavior. He is out to get self gratification, and doesnt care about anyone else other than himself. Now if you decide to stop seeing him and he asks why you won't see him, you can then tell him that you realized you didn't like him. If he still comes after you, then you can tell him even if you did like him, you wouldn't want to have a boyfriend who is a player and chases after every female out there.
It is perfectly normal to have a list of criteria before dating a guy. At a young age, I didn't either though and ended up married to a bad guy. You might find it awkward to bring up with the next guy before dating or doing any making out. Let the guy know you want a guy who can prove to be a best friend before having sex. Thats one way to rule out the guys looking for easy prey. Females crave atever, there is good attention and bad attention. You know what the actions of a guy are like who give bad attention, the users. Now look for the other sort. If you haven't learned how to spot the users, you may go through this again in life and some are very good at hiding their true character. But know this, most people put up a false front, a mask, pretending to be someone they are not but after enough time goes by, that mask will slip. So don't be quick to give yourself to guys. I see in most that they begin to show their true self after about 2 ,3 months. Good luck.
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