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The right thing to say
Hey, so today I was talking to what I thought was my girlfriend (B) who actually turned out to be her friend (D) who had feelings for her. Now he tried to step up to me, and try to steal my girlfriend, and he was sayin really bad things about her and myself. Now B is mad and won't talk to anyone. She says she isn't mad at me, just mad at D, but I think she is mad at me too, which I don't even know why! I didn't say anything about her to D, exept that I love B with all my heart. Look, I know I'm not perfect, and I do make mistakes, but I was standing up and letting her friend know that I will fight for B, because I really love her, I really do. I just need some help please, from a girl. I'm 14 so around my age too please if possible. I just need some advice on what to say to her, cause I never want to lose her, I love her to much :(. Sorry it's so long, I just really need help, please...
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The first thing I think you should do is find out what exactly is wrong with her, and if she actually is upset with you, and then get into that whole process. But I think that you should tell her that she can talk to you about Anything and you won't judge her (if you actually won't) and that you are there for her. I suggest not pushing her too much with like questions and stuff, some girls just need space and time to think and such. So be there for her and try to maybe even cheer her up by doing something nice for her or something. See if there is anything you can do for her, but the main key is to let her know that you are there for her if she needs you.
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