Hi I would like to ask if is it safe to have sex after mens.My menstraution is during in last jan 24 and it ended 27 or 28,and In the 30th day of january me and my boyfriend had sex.Is it true that its safe 5 days after period? We used withdrawal method but its just a short time sex.
The withdrawal method of birth control is the least safe method of birth control. During intercourse the male releases a small amount of sperm, generally referred to as precum. The male has no control over when this is released as it is used as a lubricant during intercourse. In this precum there are enough sperm to male the female pregnant which is why the pull out method fails more than it succeeds.
If your boyfriend won't wear a condom then I suggest you not have sex with him as he is being disrespectful to you by not doing so. Condoms are better than 80% effective in preventing pregnancy and the are also able to prevent many of the STDS and the HIV/AIDS virus from being transferred between partners.
Just remember every time you are having unprotected se, even if you are on birth control pills, there is still a 1% chance of getting pregnant. With condom usage that is reduced to almost zero. Unprotected sex also means you are having sex with every other person either of you have had unprotected sex with.
Unless both of you have had blood tests to prove you are STD, HIV/AIDS free then you are playing with fire by having unprotected sex.
One other thing; if you are 14 years of age or older you may go to any or women's clinic and ask for birth control medication and be given it under a law called HIPPA. Your parents will never be told. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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