Hi there. I'm in a long distance relationship and this past Valentines I had sent photos and videos. Very tasteful. Anyways he said he would call me. And he never did. He did send me a video wishing me a Happy Valentine's and he loves me and blah. He liked all my photos on Instagram also which was nice. However. He never did call me like he promised. And since that video Saturday night. He hasn't texted or anything. He has been on his pages and his Instagram and all that. But hasn't said a peep to me. Should I wait on him to message me? Or take this as a hint that he doesn't want to be with me...?
Or go on a limb and just assume he hasn't had time to text me? Seriously. He logs in his Instagram several times a day. Yet doesn't have time to text me..
How or what do I do? I can't send another message or anything.....
Any ideas?
If your boyfriend hasn't bothered to contact you in several days, including not calling when he said he would on Valentines, than you should ask yourself whether or not he is good boyfriend material.
Also, you need to assume he probably not that into you.
It's not reasonable to expect a person in a long distance relationship to contact you every single day or text back immediately, every single time. People have to live their lives. But it is reasonable to expect someone to keep their word and contact you when they said they were going to.
You COULD send another message. There is no law against it. If I were you, I'd be asking him very directly if he is all right, because he didn't call when he said he would, or since then, and surely something must be really wrong, because he wouldn't be so rude and inconsiderate unless he had a decent reason - right? [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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