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how to get close to someone
For the past 4 months, I've been attracted to a guy and it seems like it's correspondent. I mean, I pretty much always catch him looking in my direction and I've caught him staring at me loads of times. He acts different around me and I'm not sure if it's because I piss him off or because he has a crush on me back. Could somebody possibly answer this. Another thing I want to mention about the glances is that yesterday I was in a room and he was in a room within that room and my friend said he probably just went there to observe me because she caught him staring at me and they made eye contact. I want to start talking to him because he's like my type: funny, incredibly smart, nice and you know, he has a nice face. The next time I make eye contact I'll try to smile at him but I'm not sure if that'll be enough. I really, really feel that it's going to work out between us (and my gut is like almost always right) but I don't know how if we barely talk. Can somebody give me some advice??
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Great tips from Irish guy. Although don't worry if your hair is shorter, it's more the tight in the bun, or heavily fussed over hair with sprays and gels that guys can't touch or run their fingers though that I have found is the issue. The more fussy and more work went into your hairstyle, the more they will be afraid to touch your hair or have experience of girls who told them hands off the hair. So the more natural your hair is, just brush it and let it hang whether short or long is the bigger issue. All people have their preferances, what they find sexier and respond to more often, but I know of guys who like shorter be well cut hair as long as it is still feminine looking and a good cut for her face shape. Long hair and a long narrow face do not mix well.
That aside, he's probably as nervous and scared as you. Lots of guys even grown up ones like to leave it to the gals to make the first move as they are so afraid of rejection. You already know he is interested so this is easy. You don't have to find things to say to catch his interest, you already have that. Next time you smile, stop and say Hi. If you don't know each others names, thats a good place to start, and as awkward as it may sound, it good to get to the point instead of beat around the bush. So first thing, introduce yourself and ask his name. If you both already know, then just greet him by name. A simple Hi Jonah will do. Next you mention that you have noticed that he's watching you quite often and you've been doing the same. You tell him that you are interested in getting to know him and hope he feels the same way and since neither of you was taking the next step to just talk, you decided to open conversation with him. Once you start talking, even if he's shy, he will respond back.
Now if you say Hi to him and then panic and close up and can't bring yourself to start really talking to him, at least greet him and hand him a hand written note that goes something like this: Hi. I have been watching you for some time cus I am interested in getting to know you and have seen you watching me alot. I was too chicken to start talking to you. But I want you to know that if you are interested in me and want to talk to me, I'd be very happy for you to start a friendship with me.
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Lastly, if you dont have the guts for that, make it the simple grade school note passed that reads, do you like me? WITH a box to check for yes or for no and hand it to him with a pen. you both might start talking right then if he answers yes.
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OK, GOOD NEWS! He definitely likes you, a lot if he keeps staring at you the way he does. This is advice from a guy btw so I know this stuff XD. If you smile, it'll only make him like you more. Here's some tips! 1. Wink,smile,swirl and twist your hair a lot, this drives guys crazy for girls. 2. Don't wear buns! Ponytails are fine, but guys really love long hair. Honestly I'd die for a girl who has hair like rapunzel XD. Just keep it down sometimes. Also wavy hair is AMAZING. 3. Talk to him! Look don't try to ignore him to get your attention. Ok yes... It works, but what's the point if you're to shy to talk to him! 4. Be who you are! A lot of girls act different than who they are, but it kinda turns guys off. Just be yourself like be weird and spontaneous! That makes you stand out and definitely makes him want you even more! Hope this helps! :)
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