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Hyy...this is a girl...who was a fun loving grl..of 17 BT still survives much harder...my dad has past last year and now my mom hates me alloott I know very well that my absence and my presence dosnt make much differnce ...Im hated by evry family member BT luved by my friends BT bearing so long with my mom I m now tyrd destroyed fully so want to dei or leave or go smewhre far BT no money no courage no idea..BT want to leave fynally at NY how..where should I go what should I do...please help want to work I know much younger still want to stand on my legs if not suicide then...????
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Until your 18 we really can't help you with were to go as legally parents are responsible for your health and safety until you turn 18. If you were to leave you would be considered a runaway and returned home until you turn 18.
Suicide is also not an answer it is the wrong solution to a temporary problem. What you need is professional help to fix what is wrong with your dysfunctional family and causing you to feel suicidal.
If you are felling suicidal then the quickest way to get help is to dial 911 and ask for help. All you need to tell the call taker is you are feeling suicidal and help will be sent to you.
There are a number of ways to get help for your problems. One way is to talk to a trusted teacher or your school principal. If you are unhappy at home or in a dysfunctional family you cannot do well at school. Once they know of a problem they must take action to correct it.
Another way is to call one of the hot lines I am giving you. The first is called "The Kids Help Phone" They specialize in problems relating to what kids your age face. Their number is 1-800-668-6868. The hot line is open 24/7 365 days a year.
The other is: The National Suicide Lifeline/ No matter what problems you are dealing with, they want to help you find a reason to keep living. By calling 1-800-273-TALK (8255) you’ll be connected to a skilled, trained counselor at a crisis center in your area, anytime 24/7.
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Hon, you need to talk with someone who not only is qualified and available to talk to teens about any and all issues but has the resources to put you in touch with for help. From your message, I am not sure what your problems are when saying you survive much harder and your dAD has survived the past last year. I understand you when saying Mom hates you. I can't tell if there are other issues that make it seem so or if it's 100% so, therefore, it's best for you to check out this one link I'm giving you which has specific crisis numbers to call whether there's bullying, eating disorders, depression, homeless or runaway, suicide, violence at home, etc. many many sites to work on specific problems. If you don't see one for exactly your issue, try one for stress or depression and give a description of your issue and ask if they handle that or not and if not, what number you can be calling instead.
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I hope everything ends up looking better for you soon. Thanks for thinking of us. ITs good you are reaching out, but I feel some of these outlines are better equipped and will know how to put you in touch with local agencies (your state or town)to help.
It is hard to take off and start to try making it on your own...I know because my young sister did that at 16, she looked older, and found jobs where they didn't verify age but it was a long hard road. That was 30 yrs ago and now the world is even a harsher place. You don't want to end up on the streets with no place to live, no food, hygeine, and people looking for young folks to use and abuse them in sex and drug trafficking is very real and they know what to look for when approaching those who left home with high hopes to make it on their own, stand on their own 2 feet. You stick out like a sore thumb and become prey to them. And that's gonna be worse than whatever you're facing now. So whatever you do, don't go it alone. If you are determined to leave home, there may be teen safe houses and other resources available. Who ever you call, you need to let them know what you are willing to try or not but be open to listening to their suggestions.
Good luck dear.
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