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Did I pop my cherry or what?
So I am bleeding and I don't know why. I f*ngered myself and in the middle of it I looked down and blood. I'm scared. The bleeding is slowing down now. It's not my period I know that. Should I tell my mom? I'm only 14. This is my first time bleeding like this. I started in the 4th grade. My boyfriend knows and he is worried. I nearly repainted the toilet. What should I do? What was it? Did I pop my cherry?
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In regards as to whether or not you are still a virgin? Yes you are still a virgin. By todays definition a women is a virgin until she has sexual intercourse with a male. Sexual intercourse is defined as penile penetration of her vagina.
Now what you most likely did is tear your Hyman or your nail cut you somehow. The vagina is full of blood vessels especially the labia. If you tore you Hymen you may need to see a GYN if it did not separate you Hyman completely.
I know you don't want to tell your mom you were masturbating even though it is perfectly normal to do so as mom may not approve. Just for your information according to a recent survey 85% of us masturbate. So it is entirely possible mom does as well. In fact masturbation is part of foreplay before intercourse. So when mom has sex with dad is she does oral or gives him and HJ or dad does oral or fingers her they are doing mutual masturbation as a prelude to sex. I know TMI but it is the truth.
Since you are 14 you do not have to tell mom if you want to see a gyn. A Federal Law called HIPPA gives you Medical Confidentiality over your reproductive System. This means anything concerning you reproductive system is yours to control medically.
Your parents cannot force you to have a female examination nor can they force you to have or stop you from having an abortion if you were to become pregnant. This law was passed specifically so that young people could seek a doctor’s advice for any problem or concerns they may have over their reproductive system.
Since this law was passed anyone 14 or older may see and be treated by a doctor for anything concerning the reproductive system without parental permission. Because of the confidentiality imposed the doctor cannot tell anyone why you were seen or how you were treated without you written consent. This includes your parents.
If for some reason mom was to take you to a doctor and a female exam was requested or the doctor needed to do a female exam. If you do not want mom in the exam room and to know the results of the exam just say to the doctor; "I impose my rights under HIPPA." The doctor must then tell mom to leave the room. The doctor cannot examine you while she is there.
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If your an athletic person this can also cause your hymen to tear a little or stretch. I used to be into dance in high school and although i wasnt on my period at the time, i did one day, over a few days experience a little bit of blood in my underwear and a sharp pain in that area. after that it was fine though and i was still technically a virgin for about two years after.
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At 14, a great many teens do not have regular periods and can get 2 in a month or none for 2 months, so I still say there's a chance your period is about to start. Girls can be more horny as their period is ready to start and more likely to be masturbating at the time.
If you felt no pain, then my guess is a period is about to start. If you did feel pain, it could have been a tearing of the hymen but hymen's don't pop.
Watch this you tube video by a young women whose focus is education for sex and relationship geared towards teens and college age.
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The vagina or hymen repairs just fine on it's own without intervention. The only concern would be if you were one of the few females whose hymen doesnt ring the circumferance of the vagina but is a strip of tough tissue down the middle leaving two much smaller openings, where using a tampon is often painful or impossible. This strip of skin can get ripped over and over and cause a good bit of bleeding. Usually, young women don't know there is a problem until they are of age to purchase and use vibrators which won't fit or sexually active and it is too painful and the male can not enter. It's a simple procedure at Drs. removing the strip of tissue. It' unlikely that is your problem. So next time you finger yourself, if there is a repeat of the bleeding, and you are not on your period, you may want to ask mom to take you for your first checkup with a GYN.
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