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Asking a guy to the cinemas
I am 17 and I have a huge crush on this cute guy who I work with which is 19. I want to ask him out to the cinemas but how do I ask him? And if he says yes, what would you do after the movie has finished?
How d i ask for his number?
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I once played it really casual. I just started talking about a film I really wanted to see but didn't want to go billy-no-mates. Ask him his opinion of the film and suggest you go together. If the guy wants to hang out after suggest somewhere casual, cheap and cheerful like a fast food place.
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if theres a candy shop near by, then walk over and pick out a bag of candy to share! ; ) its innocent but gets you both involved as you both have to pick your favorite candys to put in one bag. ; )
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How much do you chat at work? How I personally go about something like this depends on if I have ever talked to the person before or to what extent or if we're good friends at work and talk often.
So if you've never talked to him before, start up a conversation with him and after the conversation, you say you enjoyed chatting with him alot and would like to do more of the same, and ask if he doesnt mind trading numbers with you. If he isn't willing to trade numbers, he likely isn't interested enough to accept a date to the movies. If he says yes, chat on the phone with him and then ask if he'd like to go to a movie. In chats, find out what genre of movie he likes as well as music and books, etc. That makes it easier to suggest a certain movie when the time comes.
If you do already chat alot at work and are very friendly with each other and he seems to like you but hasn't made any move, just come straight out and ask if he'd like to go to a movie. If he's shy he might want to but too shy to ask you first.
After a movie, go to a restaurant or fast food place, and sit and talk. Talk is important in getting to know each other. Discuss the movie for one thing and move on the other topics. If you feel nervous or don't know what to say, best thing is to admit cus once you get that piece of news out to him, rather than worry and be anxious, your fears will go away, you'll relax and he won't think less of you cus he probably has the same happen to him at times.
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