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Hanging Out
So I am 13 years old
(girl by the way) and my best friend is a boy. I want to hang out with him outside of school, but I don`t know how to ask and what I should do with him. Can anyone help? Thanks :)
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A really good thing to is first ask your parents if you're allowed to have a boy over ( make sure to assure them that he is just a friend ) and if they say yes then just casually ask if he would ever like to come over sometime and watch a movie or eat pizza aha, just something fun! When you're asking try to be as casual as possible. Remember, the worst thing that can happen is he refuses the offer.
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The easiest way to do this is by asking your parents if you can have a male friend come over to hang out at the house. During puberty and teen years, ALL parents of teen girls worry about pregnancy, not that they don't trust you, but they were teens once and recall how strong those feelings can be, especially if two teens develop these feelings for each other, then experimenting just a little starts, kissing, touching but grownups know how easily it is to get carried away from good intentions.
So for their peace of mind, they may agree to have him over when they are at home. Probably won't be okay with you hangin at his house in case his parents aren't as concerned, cus he's a boy and cant get pregnant so they will not feel the same as your parents will as far as watchfulness over you two.
So once he's at your house, play your favorite music for him and he can bring his favorites to share. Do you have a particular board game you like to play? Get him involved. Find out what things you have in common. If by chance he likes to cook, then the two of you offer to cook a whole meal for the parents and family, if he likes drawing, sketching, do that together, watch movies, don't worry so much about having a long planned out list of what to do. Just a few things to get started and ask each other what you like or have interest in. You may be able to teach each other a new thing. Like if he's taking karate class, he can teach you a few moves, if you love snapping good photos, you could offer to teach him how to frame a shot and get the best possible photos.
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