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he never texts me first
so i met this guy at a party, and when we were introduced we immediately clicked (or so i thought we did), we talked and talked for the rest of the night at the party, and when it was time to leave we left the party together and waited at the same bus stop together. at that time i was waiting for my ride and he was catching the bus 160, and so when the bus was right there, i was like "oh your bus is here" but he said that he would catch the other one. so then we talked for like another 15 minutes, i casually hinted for his number, so we exchanged numbers. then later that night he texted me. all the other times after that though i would be the first to initiate conversation. then there was this practice test at my university, and we were both there, during lunch break he came up to my table where my friend and i sat, and asked how the test went, and when i asked him where he was going for lunch, he said that he was just going to eat in the caf and that i could join him if i wanted. so we end up eating lunch together, but then after the practice test he never said bye to me. fast forward a few days after that, i initiated that we should study together and he said that we definitely should, and asked when i was free. so we make plans , and we studied together, and before he left, i said we should do this again, and he grinned and said yeah we should....but that was the last i heard from him. its been more than a week, and I'm just trying to see if he will text me first, but he hasn't....is that a good sign or bad ? is he interested or is he not ? i don't want to be clingy, or seem desperate... and i feel like I'm just obsessed and over analyzing the situation, should i just move on ? :(
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Do you know if he's single?
Maybe he is still figuring out if he likes you or not.
Guys usually try to be your friend and then understand u as a person and if he sees that there are possibilities of more than friendship,they make the move.
I think you should give him some time.
Another week or so..see if he gets in touch with you.
You have initiated the conversations most of the times,maybe you should wait for him to make a move or plan an outing for coffee or movies or whatever.
Keep your self occupied. You over analyzing this situation is of no help.
If he gets in touch with you,it might have potential to become a relationship later on.
But for now,since you've been initiating the conversation, put that on hold.
When the guy sees that you're not texting him, hell come back to you if he is interested.
It shouldnt be a one sided affair where you end up being the needy one.
Doesn't help the ego later on :)
So wait around ,if he gets in touch well maybe you guys can build on your friendship and see where it goes.
Otherwise I'd suggest there are tons of fishes in the sea,move on :)
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Honestly, guys are not smart sometimes. And they need many many hints. By the sounds of it this guy seems interested. Even a little bit. But he is also giving alot of mixed signals. I would ask to hang out and ask him in person wether or not he is interested. Yes, it may be terrifying. And scary. But if you dont ask then you will be worrying away endlessly. Its better to know than not to know. If the in person thing seems too scary you could always text him and ask.
good luck :)
*Jasmine<3
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