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I need a gal sex
I love this girl nd m finding it difficult to lure her into my bedroom
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The word lure sounds abit like you are conspiring to get her in bed with you. If you love someone you don't conspire to do something they either are not ready to do or do not want to do. You say you love her; are you sure you love her and not just lust for her. If you love someone you would not try to lure or conspire to have her do something she does not want to do.
When it comes to sex you have to be very careful about how you try to have sex with someone. Once they say no, or any other negative response to your attempts to have any type of sex with them. If you continue to try and lure or convince them to have sex with you, then you cross the line into the legal definition of sexual harassment. If this girl is under the age of consent she or her parents can bring charges against you. If you are both of school age and you are doing so at school the school authorities can bring charges as well.
Sexual harassment is todays slippery slope as it is very much on the radar of everyone. What was once tolerated as jut hormonal overcharged teenaged males is todays sexual harassment. The line which is crossed is also very fluid. What is acceptable today may not be acceptable tomorrow. Frankly I would not want to be a teenage male today.
If your girlfriend loves you she will let you know when she is ready to have sex with you. When she is you need to have condoms and use them. Not just for pregnancy protection but for protection against STDs and the HIV/AIDS virus. Even if you are both virgins starting with condoms is a good habit to start with.
Next, make sure wherever you are going to make love is comfortable and secure from intrusion. Take your time and make sure she is ready. Foreplay is important. Have some lubrication Gel so as to make sure when you do penetrate her you don't hurt her. If she is a virgin take you time and make it as nice as possible for her. Virgin or not remember every time you have sex with a women you are penetrating there body. There is a small trauma associated with the penetration so make sure she is ready and well lubricated.
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When she's ready you won't have to "lure" her to your bedroom.
She'll willingly have sex with you without feeling pressure.
So just get to know her, spend time with her, talk to her and see where she's at with the two of you.
If she wants to have sex with you, she will.
But don't pressure her, that would be sexual harassment.
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You make it sound really creepy. Why don't you try talking to her and getting to know her, and you know, normal stuff like dating before you "lure her into your bedroom" for sex.
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