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she don't want me 2 visit him
Hi 15F.. Me and "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ bf *̩s 2gether for almost 2 weeks now. And *̩ went 2 his house today ( "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom send "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ feiend 2 watch over us) and *̩ wanted 2 go tomorrow again coz *̩ don't see him over vacation. She said no. And that *̩ am "going after" him. Help plzz?
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Have you and the parents ever formally sat down and discussed dating rules and boundaries, or when you are allowed to have male friends, at what age can you have private dates, etc.
Moms of teen boys don't have to worry about him coming home pregnant or raped so more often, there's not as many rules, if none for boys. I raised 3 girls. So I didn't want them, raped, pregnant or such. But I did want them to be able to have time hanging out with boyfriends, male friends, so the rule was, he was welcome to hang out at our house when I was at home so I could keep an eye on them. If they both got to the point where they had such strong feelings for each other that they really wanted to have sex together, my stipulation was that they come to me and I'd make sure to get them on the pill and that there'd be condoms to use. Not a single one of the guys ever interested in my daughters had the guts to come hang at our house though. All my daughters decided on their own to wait until they graduated highschool before having sex.
So as you can see, it depends on the parent but there are compromises that can be made, however you have to have a good talk before you can find out what the rules are and if they will give you a choice in the matter.
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