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I actually like 2 of classmates. Now, I think have a crush on one of them more but I think also a crush on the other guy because he said he like me jokingly but I treated it seriously. Both of the guys are awesome. What should I do?
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Figure out which one will becomes a doctor and stick with him.
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If i were you i would like the one classmate you have a crush on more over the other classmate who said they jokingly like you how serious can he be if he jokingly said it? Probably not that serious he was clearly joking i wouldn't take what he said seriously because he wasn't serious himself i wouldn't think the one classmate who jokingly said he likes you is awesome he isn't he led you to believe he likes you because you took what he said seriously what he did was wrong i wouldn't have a crush on him so like the other classmate you have a crush on more he seems more sincere genuine
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Become friends with both and let each know that you are befriending the other and will be friends with both of them. IF either has a problem with that, let him go, it means he is insecure and will likely be jealous and perhaps controlling as time goes on.
Since neither has asked you out or to be their girlfriend, I don't see any issue with being close with the each, do things together as a group, all 3. You are likely young and just starting the dating and relationship process. It's a time to enjoy while you learn what you like in the opposite sex. And it's impossible to learn that unless you spend time with them. It is okay to spend time together as friends during which you get to know them both better. All the way, make sure that both know that you like them both equally as friends, however, before you decide if you are interested in either one of them as more than friends, you need to spend time with to discover which one you'd prefer to date if they even feel that way too.
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