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dont know how to get my boyfriend back?
First of all before I start, I want to go ahead and give some background information . My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months and we never fought, and my boyfriend's aunt Hates my boyfriend's side of the family. Okay .
My boyfriend and I love well loved I guess each other very much and have been dating for four months and on our four month anniversary, he texted me saying his aunt said to him that I was saying crap about my boyfriend's family like I hated them all. And my boyfriend dumped me. I got really upset and emotional he thought I did all of that, then I called up his mom and said that to clear the air, I didn't say anything bad, and she believed me. And he got really mad I went to his aunt's son party, now him and I started to talk again and he said he knows those lies aren't true and he doesn't want to date me again and he wants to be single for a while and be friends with me. I still really love him and as I heard from his mom he really cares about me. He was the one who fell for me first and I want him back again, What can I do to get my boyfriend back over all this family drama that has occured?
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Sounds like he realized he made assumptions based on what someone else said about someone he cared about and in finally discovering the truth that you are innocent, realizes how immature he still really is and perhaps feels guilty but also not ready to have a boyfriend /girlfriend relationship because of all that. He's still willing to be friends and give himself time to grow up to the point he feels he's ready to be a good boyfriend, in the meanwhile, til he's comfortable with himself, he may be only willing to be just friends.
If this is his stance, and you want things the way they were before, the only thing that can change that is having a good talk with him, seeing if that's how he is thinking, trying to avoid hurting you again. If you're willing to forgive and feel unable to be Just friends after dating, then let him know you're okay with if there are problems again in the future, but you don't want potential problems that may never occur to keep you guys from dating. See if that makes a difference. Good luck.
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