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some times I give head to men Id like to come clean with my wife
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Hi,
You haven't actually asked a question, just made a statement. If you are asking how to tell her then you just have to make sure you are alone somewhere private and tell her in the clearest most honest way you can.
If you give more information about this myself and other columnists can give further and better advice.
I am Gay so if you want to ask anything at all from that point of view I'll happily answer any questions you have.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams and live the life you imagined
Ashok
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Okay your a closeted Bi who wants to come out of the closet with his wife. If you tell us what is holding you back other than fear itself maybe we can offer some specific help. In general what you can expect when you tell her is:
Your wife be shocked? When we think of Bi and Bi-curious people the first thing most of us think of is the female. Why this is I can't explain other than it is what is portrayed more in pornography that is found to be socially acceptable. So it would be reasonable just on those grounds for your wife to be shocked.
After being shocked comes anger and misunderstanding. Anger that you have hidden this from her. Misunderstanding that you could do something like this and possibly bring some disease home to her.
Guilt could be the next emotion she expresses feeling she may have done something or is not do something that drove you to so this. This will all depend on how you react to the first three emotions she express which may very well come in rapid fire order.
Will she throw you out of the house, will she want a divorce, will she think of you as gay? I can't answer these questions as I don't know her and would need to know her to have any concept as to how she would ultimately react upon hearing this.
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