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high heel ffetish
im a male who cannt control my need to wear high heels away from work ones with a 6 or 7 inch heel if I don't I get depressed
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Hey you have a harmless fetish, no problem. If it helps you from becoming depressed then it is a good thing. There are any number of fetishes out there today many far more harmful that wearing high heeled shoes. Yours is a harmless fetish you can indulge in with complete privacy by using the web to purchase your shoes.
Since you only made a statement there is not much else we or I can say to you. though if you have a question please write us back.
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Hey there, you made a statement but didn't actually state what you needed advice on. You did say you can't control wearing 6-7 inch heels. Were you wanting to wear heels lower in height or not wear any at all?
These days, pretty much nothing is considered odd anymore and people have the freedom to express themselves the way they feel a need to and the way that makes them happiest.
I can understand being upset if you feel you cant do something you want to for whatever reason. However depression is as far as I'm concerned, a secondary condition to whatever other emotional needs you have that are being bottled up. There is clinical depression, you just have it and it's not based on the situations in your life. If thats what you have, you need to see a Dr. and get medication. If this is a depression caused by situations, you can get over the depression maybe even without medication but you may still need help. If you don't want this need but want to know where it comes from, we can only guess, we are not professionals. I believe in reincarnation and our souls holding onto some bits and pieces of a past life that come through in odd little things we do or dream that aren't consistant with societys general description of the female and male sex's. I used to dream I was a man, a warrior trained to defend our villages and I killed people which went against my Christian beliefs, violence. I only came to grips when I began to believe reincarnation and knowing that this isn't odd, it's something my soul remembers from a lifetime as a male rather than as a female. Not everyone will believe such things, but it sure helped me to not feel odd.
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