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After divorce, then what?
I am about to divorce my wife due to incompatibility issues. In fact, she had filed for divorce and it will be over soon.
I want to fall in a relationship again where there is love,understanding. I don't know how to move on.
Please suggest.
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I had the incompatibility issues with my ex big time. I decided to use a dating site. there are some for pay that are good,I used two free sites. If you wish to know which, You can write me back.
It is scary to start again. Plus you've grown as a person since you first married. You can also try a singles meet up event. Just look for singles meet ups in your city on line. Some organize meets at a restaurant or bar, for bbq's at a park, for a hike, etc.. where people can mingle and get to know each other. Some dating sites have a singles meet up attached to them.
The slow method is in person meet ups. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack to find someone. If you have some very specifics you are looking for in the next lady, a dating site helps.
But you have to be able to describe yourself well enough in profile so when you write a lady, she can read and know if you might be what she's looking for. Mine was so specific on myself and what I wanted in a man that when my now 2nd husband wrote me, we could see we had lots in common. the only thing we didn't know was if we'd have chemistry so we met in person as soon as possible.
don't act desperate. Just enjoy the dating process. I learned too along the way and kept refining my profile depending on snafu's I ran into. good luck. Ask any questions if you need more info.
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