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I am 22 years old and am dating this guy I know through a friend.I had known him since 2009 and met a couple of times. I Had heard a lot about him from my best friend. the sad part is he left for europe to pursue higher studies. we are currently in a long distance relationship and will mostly be for the next one year.He keeps telling me that he really likes me and when we are on the phone we talk real dirty. He told me that distance doesnt matter even though we started a relationship like this. He seems quite honest about his feelings and talks about having kids in the future. my track record in relationships haven't been exactly great.I sometimes feel if its stupid to start a relationship like this or should I just go with the flow.I really like the guy and I think it does have potential to turn into something solid in the near future.I don't want to keep bringing up the distance issue as I don't want him to feel m not in for a relationship. he seems confident and talks about being together in the future all the time. Does this sound stupid?
Read more: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) 22 years old and am dating this guy I know through a friend.I had known him since 2009 and met a couple of times. I Had heard a lot about him from my best friend. the sad part is he left for europe to pursue higher studies. we are currently in a long distance relationship and will mostly be for the next one year.He keeps telling me that he really likes me and when we are on the phone we talk real dirty. He told me that distance doesnt matter even though we started a relationship like this. He seems quite honest about his feelings and talks about having kids in the future. my track record in relationships haven't been exactly great.I sometimes feel if its stupid to start a relationship like this or should I just go with the flow.I really like the guy and I think it does have potential to turn into something solid in the near future.I don't want to keep bringing up the distance issue as I don't want him to feel m not in for a relationship. he seems confident and talks about being together in the future all the time. Does this sound stupid?
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There's nothing stupid at all in inititiating a relationship here. At present he has stated his intent. You should accept that this is how he feels. Feelings can change over time. There is no gurantee that being physically together would ensure his (or yours) don't change. The distance does not make it inevitable or highly likely that your mutual feelings will change. Stay in touch. Chat sexy too, it's very erotic. Keep talking about the future but try to have as much fun and store up plenty of good experiences and thus, memories when you chat. Use the chats well. Try not to think of your happiness as something which is only IN the future is what I am saying here I guess. Or that's where it will always stay. Start living it now to the best of your ability and assume the best outcome. That's a good way to face many more issues than just long-distance relationships actually. So hold on to that last bit!! Your previous relationship track record does not matter one bit. We are not defined by our past. Your future is yours to make or spoil as you choose, a blank sheet waiting for you to write on it. Indeed...just 'go with the flow'. Best wishes and hope he's 'the one'. XX
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