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confused!!
am 22 years old and am dating this guy I know through a friend.I had known him since 2009 and met a couple of times. I Had heard a lot about him from my best friend. the sad part is he left for europe to pursue higher studies. we are currently in a long distance relationship and will mostly be for the next one year.He keeps telling me that he really likes me and when we are on the phone we talk real dirty. He told me that distance doesnt matter even though we started a relationship like this. He seems quite honest about his feelings and talks about having kids in the future. my track record in relationships haven't been exactly great.I sometimes feel if its stupid to start a relationship like this or should I just go with the flow.I really like the guy and I think it does have potential to turn into something solid in the near future.I don't want to keep bringing up the distance issue as I don't want him to feel m not in for a relationship. he seems confident and talks about being together in the future all the time. Does this sound stupid?
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People who meet in person first and can feel that chemistry of attraction and the sexual desire is a good thing and therefore an LDR of this sort has greater potential of turning out okay in the end compared to one where two meet on line never having met in person. Just in using a dating site myself, short term talking on line before meeting in person, thought the guy was perfect until we met in person and realized we both lacked having the chemistry together. Its' something you feel, not see so its hard for those just starting to date to know.
Since you didn't expand on your track record, I can't help you figure out what it might be that you are doing wrong. Yup....can't blame the bad guys. You had a choice to date them or not. No one twisting your arm to make you do it. I'm right there with you though. At 20, I didn't know better and I made some bad mistakes in innocense of just not knowing any better. And that is how so many women end up hurt by men. Mine was an abusive man I unknowingly married. I married him too quickly. If I had waited , I may have had more opportunity to see his issues coming.
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