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loves me but wants to call this a friendship 2
I understood what you said. But I still can't ratoonalize the fact that there was no romantic relationship. We were and still are till two days back, into it. He never stopped from telling me that I was the one. I was always the one afraid of getting serious. And our connection on a sexual level wasn't something that could be turned back into a friendship. Hence, I'm foxed by his decision.
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Maybe you were the one afraid of getting serious because your subconscious mind was trying to tell you that he is not a good choice for becoming serious with. Our subconscious minds run things in our body that our conscious minds don't have to give any thought to like thinking about taking our next breath, or the next blink of our eyes. Another things the sub. mind rules is our dreams. And it also had the job of protecting us for hurt or due to past hurts or trauma's will cause you to feel and act a certain way in order to protect, whether it is a bit off in its interpretation, or not. I also feel like my subconscious mind is really my inner child and as such, I can't allow it free rein to run my life but i will listen to it, as if it were another person inside of me. When I talk to myself, I am talking to my subconscious self, and my subconscious will help me figure out problems or situations. Its a psychology thing. I can't explain it any better. OUr sub picks up on some things sooner than our conscious mind. Maybe this is what was going on for you. As to what you do from here on, is up to you dear. Wondering and being perplexed about it isn't going to change the outcome. So either you decide to stop worrying about it, and just accept the situation as is, no questions asked of him or you end it. good luck dear. I know its not as easy as I make it sound.
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