Question Posted Friday September 26 2014, 11:25 pm
I'm fifteen and a female. I met this guy like 5 days ago and recently he stopped talking and calling me. I called him today and it went straight to voicemail. Should I call him again or just leave him alone
solidadvice4teens answered Friday September 26 2014, 11:45 pm: How often did you call him? That makes a difference. If all the calling was one-sided and made by you and he didn't call much he may have the wrong impression that you're needy.
Then again, the guy could be extremely busy with school, activities and other commitments that he hasn't been able to get back to people this week. It's not likely but it's possible.
The thing is maybe he was interested in you then but for whatever reason isn't any longer. Rather than doing the courtesy of telling you the truth and hurting you he could be hoping that not answering to your number will get you to move on.
What would I do? I wouldn't text, call or leave any messages. If he wants to get in contact he knows exactly how to find you. Let him come to you and initiate things from here on. In the meantime move on with life.
If he calls great if not that's okay too. You really didn't know each other outside of the one meeting. If you call again you'll definitely set the wrong impression permanently with him unfortunately. He needs to lead and or not from this point. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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