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Boyfriend problems
Hello, so I started talking to this boy on Saturday and it's been pretty good but since yesterday he havnt been calling me or texting me and he hasn't been answering my calls. When I do call him it goes straight to voice mail. Is he tired of me? Should I just give up on contacting him or should I keep trying?
Im fifteen and I'm a girl.
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It may depend on how you starting this talking or communicating a week ago. Is this someone you see in person like at school daily and finally talked to. Did you have a nice long conversation or only long enough to exchange phone numbers?
If you never really had conversation with him, there's no sign for him to know whether he's interested enough in you yet to pursue you further, no hook yet. If he sought you out, then he has some level of interest. If you sought him out and he answered, he may or may not be interested and was only being polite to exchange numbers.
Not all guys like using a cell phone to call, and theres even more who don't like typing and texting.
Did he ask for your number? If so, he is interested but may not be good at prioritizing his time. Guys can juggle many things important to them. If you dont make one of his top 3 priorities, then you have low priorty and may not have much contact from him.
If you asked him, again its hard to tell if he really is interested in you or not. He jsut may be too embarassed or feel awkward to not give it to you.
Guys get distracted in texting. They get busy with what is within reach in their world and will forget to contact or get distracted. If you see him at school, contact him there instead of leaving messages. Ask if he's got a busy schedule. Maybe his grandma just died. If you contact a guy too often with no response, you will make yourself look desparate and that is a turn off to boys. They like confident girls who know what they want and are not afraid to ask for it. So in person, you ask if he is interested at all in spending some time with you to get to know each other better, Youd like to go out with him. Is there time in his schedule? When what date, what time, where shall you go, lets decide. If he hems and haws, give up on him and look for another guy. Just seeing you move on to date someone else may make the first guy wake up and realize you're the kind of girl he could really be interested in. But thats not guaranteed.
In relationships, face to face convo is best.
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