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Maturity Level to impress a girl!
So I met this girl, she is PERFECT for me, but I'm not sure if I'm perfect for her. She's 15 and I'm 13, so I'm not sure if she wants to be with a 13 year old. She said she likes me but she's not sure yet, so I think I need to be more mature. I'm not sure what to do so some advice from a GIRL would help A LOT. Please answer my question. I need some help fast!!!!! :(
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It can look awkward and you both may be prone to teasing from your peers. But in reality, there is nothing wrong with an age difference as long as you both have no problem with it and are at the same maturity level and can connect mentally.
Teen girls want a male who likes their looks, is attracted to her but his main goal for wanting to date her is to become friends first with her rather than just use her to satisfy his strong sexual urges. She wants someone who truly listens, will have good conversation with her, not just surface level stuff, but deep meaningful stuff. Being supportive of her hopes and dreams, encouraging her to try and reach for her goals, whether in school or other, it's kinda the same as a female best friend, but its better if you both discover you have that romantic chemistry and can enjoy hand holding, cuddling and kissing.
The reason for not being sure beyond the initial liking of you, could either be fear of ridiculing or she just doesn't want to lead you on promising to be your girlfriend first before knowing if she's really going to like you beyond surface level stuff. If you are on a talking basis at school, start asking her questions about herself. Find out what her favorite music, bands, movies are. What other hobbies she has, favorite foods, animals, etc... the same stuff you might learn about your male friends. If fear of peer reaction is the biggest issue, ask her if she's willing to try to get okay from her parents for you to come visit and hang out with her when her parents are home. As long as classmates don't live next door to her, theres no one to know that you two are friends seeing each other away from school. And there are a good amount of parents who will be comfortable with a daughter having a male friend (just as long as she doesnt say boyfriend) coming to hang out with her just as female friends do. It won'tbe as favorable to get the permission for her to come visit as your house because they won't know if your parents are truly home or not and at your ages, they remember all too well the sexual draw and young teens not always making the best decisions consistantly. But its worth a try to give her a chance to get to know you better.
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