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Blackmailed on


Question Posted Monday September 22 2014, 10:10 am

hi
I am from Bangladesh. I am married and have 2 kids. I have a friend in Hungary . Sometime we chat on skype and trade some pics. A friendly relation with him. He saved all my pics and vedio. From a computer service center these files are stolen . And a person named Alex trying to msg me even in my mobile with threat that he will post all this of I didn't contact with him. I remain silent . Not even answer any question.
Help me how to get rid of him and how can I stop him not post
And how can I make s complain in Hungary police

Pls advice


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Lunarbug answered Wednesday March 25 2015, 12:08 am:
Sounds like your friend . Talk to him casually and tell him you contacted the police and that theyre monitory the blackmail situation. He will get a little worried and you could potentially watch it all go away.


Failing that. . Screen shot or take photos of every conversation with the Blackmailer. Track his I.P address and go to your own police.

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ammo answered Tuesday September 23 2014, 11:45 am:
This all sounds a little dubious especially where you have been sending pics and videos to this friend and suddenly this stranger seems to have them now. My suspicion is that whoever this stranger is he probably managed to steal them from the friend you have been chatting to (and is probably a friend of his) or the friend you sent them to shared them with this Alex guy so he can try blackmail you into giving him the same thing you are giving this other friend of yours.

My suggestion would be to firstly not contact either of these people (your friend or Alex) because from my small amount of research I done, this blackmailing thing seems to be something that is quite frequent especially out of Hungary and I am willing to bet that your friend and this Alex are probably working together in an attempt to blackmail you. You should contact the Bangladesh Cyber Police as soon as you can, I have included the web site below for you:

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E-mail them or call them and explain your situation and they will hopefully be able to help you further. For now though don't reply to any of these messages by Alex and don't send any more pictures or videos to your friend. If you have the conversations and such saved keep them in case the cyber police need them to study or use as evidence but contact them as soon as you can.
Do NOT give in to the demands of blackmail because whatever they promise if you do what they say is nothing more than an empty promise and they have no reason to follow through if they know you will do whatever they want.

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