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Do you think she was refering this to me?
So my best friend/crush and I like to role play sometimes, I always make jokes that she is evil and she goes with it and says things to me like "I want you to suffer!" When we play fight with each other. I go along with it and act like I'm scared because I play as a victim and call her evil. Well this one time I saw this post on Facebook that I thought it was funny so I shared it to her. The post said:
Can we cuddle?
In our underware, so our skin will touch. Can I hold you while you wrap yourself around me? I'll play with your hair and drag my fingerstips across your skin. You'll peck my neck while I laugh and ask you to stop. We could whisper cute things to each other. Then I'll pull out my hunting knife and sacrafice you to the mighty dark lord Satan, while chanting sacrafical hymns.
She replied: "hmmm...ideas...thanks!"
I repleid: "Scary 0_0"
She said: "You started it"
Was this like flriting?
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Yes, it's probably a version of flirting between you two. Not everyone would flirt in dark tones, Love for me is lots more light hearted and cheerful.
Expressing one's sexual fantasies is part of a relationship when one or both in a relationship want to become sexual together or already are.
You only said crush...nothing about going beyond the friendship zone. If both of you are too afraid to come out and admit you have feelings, that may exlain you're playing around, although when you love someone, you don't sacrifice them, you sacrifice yourself 'so to speak' for them, by putting their needs and wants first. But it cant be one way, they need to have the same attitude and be doing the same for you. So it would seem to me that perhaps you need to ask her if she would become your girlfriend. the successful relationships are ones where the couple is best friends first but also have attraction and chemistry with each other.
I am guessing that you both are young yet and still exploring your sexuality. So it may be that even tho not engaging in sex yet, the flirting and talk leans in a direction more of Master and slave, S and M, that sort of thing but its what catches the attention now and may not be the style you settle with for life as you learn more in the future. So if you are shocked at her response, likely you dont have to take her seriously, unless in askng her she admits to being part of a Satanic cult. If pagan, Wiccan or witch is what she labels herself, the people I know by those labels are not Satanists, it goes against their nature...so no worries.
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