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I like someone who I rejected..
2 years ago my friend tried to set me up with his friend because his friend liked me but I had never talked to him. He asked me how I felt about him and I said I didn't like him I liked someone else (which I didn't know he liked me). Anyway, we started talking a lot, late nights, all day. Then we stopped talking for a whole year because I gave his number to his ex (which again I didn't know about). A year later and I like him but we still don't talk I see him at school all the time just don't know if I should approach him or not. Should I forget about him or try to be friend and see what happens?
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sounds then like a misunderstanding is the reason that he stopped talking to you about handing out his phone number without his permission, or perhaps after a year of chatting with you with no signs from you that you were interested in him, he gave up. He doesn't see any need to go out of his way to approach you in school if you are not attracted to him and wanting to date.
I think the best way to get past this is to just come out and confess that you were a bit confused back two years ago. Be specific if there are things you may have said to him that was a true rejection. Your letter didn't clearly say that you said anything to him after a year of chatting to reject him. If it was the first guy to take interest in you, you can tell him you had never dated and had no experience in how to build friendships with guys and date and such. You can admit to making some assumptions and know now that you were wrong. You apologize for anything you may have said or done to hurt him. He once showed an interest in you. From watching him from afar, you're developing an interest in him and would like to get together with him. If he isn't dating, you would like to have the chance to date him.
" I invite you to hang out with me and see for yourself that I have changed lots in the past year."
If he's not dating and still has interest in you, he will respond favorably.
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