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My sons family I feel are mean people they don't acknowldge him
My sons father family is very mean and ignorant. Everytime I see them somewhere they pick and laugh. I have never did anything to these people. My sons grandmother does for her other grandkids but she doesn't do anything for my son. When she gets him something for xmas it's always too big. She has never got him anything for his bday. She knows this is her grandson me and her son was in a relationship for five years I never cheated but he did cheat on me. We broke up because he had a child with someone else. They treat that child great. It makes me mad because my son has crohns he need support from family. But he has always had my family. What should I do just continue to ignore these mean people.
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If that is the way these people behave, consider your son lucky to not have them in his life. You will never be able to get an answer that will make sense in your mind as to why they all have made the choices they have. Humans often careen through life like a car out of control, leaving a path of destruction behind them and yet totally oblivious to it.
Sometimes in life, being blood related means nothing to some people and in life you can find true family with other's who become family to you and are adopted into your circle of who is family to you. Blood relations can drop the ball or worse, ignore and purposely shut out blood kin. there is nothing a person can do to change any one of them, so let it go. Focus your energies on finding people who treat you as if you are family and become part of their life and find more rewards and blessing from that than you could imagine. When my parents both died within years of each other, my kids were still small. We asked an older couple at church who had no grand kids yet if they would be honorary grandparents for the kids and they jumped at it. It was a natural choice to ask them as they treated us all so well and loved us to begin with. Asking someone to be family for you, perhaps an honorary grandparent for your son is the much more likely thing to happen than with actual family.
Don't go on the hunt for a grandma to adopt. Let it just happen when it happens, if it does. If it's important to you to find people whom your son can find support with, they are out there, Have faith and pray for God to bring them into your life. Good luck dear.
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