Had sex with this guy - no condom last night.
and now my vagina has this very soft throb. It's not quite super painful, but enough to feel uncomfortable.
Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday September 2 2014, 11:20 pm: are you trying to get pregnant, wanting to have a child with him? If not, go purchase the morning after pill.
Having intercourse, (penis in vagina sex) is not known to cause lingering pain the next day. If he was too large for you to fit comfortably, maybe you'd have had pain at the time. If so, don't just grin and bear it. Sex is too be enjoyed, not be in pain in the butt, er...well, in the vagina.
Sorry, no more joking.
As for a throbbing feeling, the only 'throbbing' i can think of from experience relates to being turned on and the blood flowing to the females private regions just as it does for the male. Perhaps every time you think of him and your experience, you're getting turned on and the throbbing starts again? Not trying to be funny again, seriously...this explain the throbbing feeling. Now if there is no throbbing but you feel a lingering tenderness... yes that can happen at times especially if you both were very 'exuberant' in sex, and though it may have felt good at the time, it was a little rough on your tender inner parts. Mainly, the only time I have felt tender was when a guy was a wee bit too long for me and was 'doing the jack hammer thing'. The next morning I felt a bit tender. It happens throughout life depending on the partner, perhaps the position used, how hard and how long done. It isn't serious to feel something after wards, but in my experience it is very seldom. Dont worry about it. If you have a pain that lasts more than a day or two, perhaps there is something else wrong and it just happened to coincide with the same time as having sex and is not related. If the pain continues, go see a Dr. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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