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how to initiate something real
i have been single for almost two years not literally single but i haven't had any serious relationship, its either the guy likes me and i don't or i like him and his not ready, or he has a girlfriend... so i would call it two years of being single since my last relationship i work in a company were i was introduced to a guy. His exactly what i want in a guy. he acts really nice to me, for example when i needed a flash to get movies and i asked his colleague who had offered to give me a flash earlier and didn't latter, he offered his own without my asking, and told me that i could use it for as long as i like, whenever he comes to work he smiles at me and sometimes i catch him staring... i like this guy, but i don't know if he feels the same way, his currently out of the country and would be back next week, i recently found out that he is single.How do i initiate something that would lead to what i want, without seeming desperate. we not so much of friends, neither do we talk frequently and his a very busy person.
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Start by becoming friends. Add him on facebook, like his pictures, invite him to hang out in a group for drinks, etc. Just keep it casual. Then start flirting. Eventually he will probably ask for your number. Wait for him to text you first, and continue with the casual flirting. Eventually he will probably start asking you casual questions to see if you like him such as: What do you look for in a guy? Are you looking for a relationship? Answer these questions honestly, without playing games. You have already shown him your fun side, now you need to show him your serious side. Eventually he will probably get to the million dollar question: Would you ever date a guy like me? Tell him yes. Presto a relationship. You are welcome :)
WARNING: Do not hookup with him before you two are officially a couple. If you do, chances are you will become friends with benefits and not a real relationship.
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