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I just need advice
Right now I have this one girl who I used to be close with, she always argues with me I literally can't do anything, I'm always the one trying to fix it and apologize and be friends but she never notices that! She think that she's always the one apologizing:( I admit I'm rude to her a lot but she never notices that I'm trying. I don't want to be friends with her but I don't want her to be my enemy because since we were close I've introduced her to all my friends and she just knows them all now she's also trying to be friends with the people I'm friends with who are from different school's I'm scared that she's going to turn everyone against me or that she'll steal all my friends. She already calls my 2 closest friends her best friends and always argues with me about who's closer to each of them? We just had a fight because she sent me a Dm on Instagram about her wanting to be a model, I shared my opinion on modelling and how I would rather be chosen for my brains over my beauty and some other girl that I know said the exact same thing but she only got mad at me and not her at all? I really need advice this infuriates me so much
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well, first of all, you really shouldn't be friends with this girl. Find new friends. Just make sure you don't totally dis your old friend, that might make her angry, and she might turn everyone against you, like you said. Here are some steps you could take so you can stop the drama between you and her without being left friendless:
-Make a new friend. You could find someone in your class at school, on your sports team, in your neighborhood, etc. Someone who you have a lot in common with would probably be an easy friend.
-If your old friend tries to start a fight, ignore her. It might be hard to stay quiet, although I'd like to think that most people would rather be friends with you rather than her for being mature.
-Don't keep trying to make up with this other girl. She can just keep believing you're the mean one if she wants to, just don't let it bother you.
-Don't try to turn everyone against her, even if she does this, try not to counteract her, just let it go.
Well, I hope I helped you out. Just remember: Don't start the fight, and don't feed the fire. If you don't let her bother you, you'll eventually be able to just forget about the whole thing. You might even make a new friend, hopefully a better one.
Good luck <3
~Katie~
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