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Hello,
my life was complicated when I lost my virginity with the boy wich I loved them so much,I lost my virginity as i teeneger,now I find guy muslim who wanna only virgin girl and who respect the tradicion so much? I find on internet some fake hymens (not the chinese one) this one it's american product and it's seem very effecative and no bad effects for the body..Did someone else know what other it's good and what can help me here? I don't wanna do any surgery because I'm so afrraid..I can't tell the guy the true because he will kick me from his life...From this virginity dependes my life,my marriege....
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
The Muslim standard of virginity for the modern women is outdated. Most active western women will lose their Hymen long before they have their first sexual intercourse. They do so by use of Tampons, bike riding, participating in sports and other activities that could cause their Hymans to dislodge. Masturbation is another activity that could dislodge there hymen as well.
For this reason today's definition of female virgin is: is anyone who has not had a penis penetrate her vagina. Once the penis penetrates the vagina even for a second her virginity is lost regardless of whether the Hymen is present or not.
If you are in a Muslim country you have a problem if he must have a virgin girl with a Hyman. IF you live in a Western Country you might try explaining to him that a Western girl can lose her Hyman through activities that are not sex related. If he truly loves you he would understand
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I guess theres always something new to learn as I had not heard of this. So I went researching on the internet. While I found many sales pitches and many different suppliers of the product with various prices, I could not find one who would explain with the ingredients of the fake blood or the fake hymen were.
I did find one women reporter with (New York) nymagazine.com who was asked to test the product with her boyfriend who was aware of the product use.
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She writes it mostly from a point of humorous dialog but does give some info on the matter.
After all I've read, there are questions that come up in my mind that no one is supplying the answers to in their sales pitches.
Just in case a female was very allergic to any of their ingrediants used, I thought it would be a good thing to know before hand. Since there is no way to know, if you develop a rash, itch or infection with or without a bad smell, you'd have to go see your doctor.
I am always conscious of what products I apply to my skin because whatever is applied to the skin will enter the body and the bloodstream so if its chemicals that can cause problems, it would be nice to know. The fake hymen is made of ingrediants that self destruct within 15 minutes. The reporter had the first one melt in her hands before she could figure out how to insert it.
Because there is such a short window of time from application to when the blood is released by the 'Melting Skin' packet, a female would have to get her man to put his penis in her before the time is up and she starts oozing blood that he is able to see outside her vagina or trickled onto bed sheet.
Or he may not allow you the moment to go use the bathroom beforehand (to insert it) and in eagerness just take you without the product in side. Thats always a possibility. Hopefully he is a patient man and will allow you a moment in bathroom alone.
The product comes with two, one for practice and if that fails as it did with the lady reporter, it might be a good thing to practice again with the 2nd one and then order another two.
The dye resembles red food coloring in a liquid thick enough to be blood and made quite a mess for the reporter.
The dye got scattered in quite a few different places for a liquid that is supposed to be only a few drops.
Here's a thought, blood has a coppery smell and taste, is your guy smart enough to pick up on the fact that this blood has no odor or taste? I assume of course in absence of detailed information from the creators of these products that there is no artificial odor or flavor to the liquid.
Another concern would be whether the red dye does stain sheets and skin as red cooking dye does. Blood can be wiped away and leave no stain, but red dye has left stains on my fingers when I have used it in tinting cake frostings.
Another thing you'd have to consider, does the red dye left on items turn brown later as blood stains do when they are old? If not, you would want to be washing any clothings, sheets and such before the spots have a chance to dry becuase dried blood is supposed to appear brown. We have no way of knowing if the creators put some chemicals into their fake red blood that will make it turn to brown later when it dries. I hardly think they got that fancy.
So there are several things to think about regarding use of the product.
I dont like having to pretend and basicly lie in a marriage to ones partner but I do understand the narrow minded views of some cultures. If men from those cultures are ignorant enough to believe that all virgins will have their hymen bleed during sex the first time, then they are likely stupid enough to not notice the details. Once they see the red stain, they will be happy.
This gives you something to think about and precautions to take, especially with the testing of the product before hand. Good luck.
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