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can't let grudge go aftee 2 years, help
There's this kid that almost got with my girlfriend while we were on a break and every time I seem to have a low moment, he seems to be having the highest moments of his life. For example 2 years ago they almost got together but her and I worked things through. That summer I had a really rough time while this other kid lost like 90 pounds and began to look great. Then this year he became a marine and here I am starting college not knowing what I want to do. Everyone praises him and his life seems awesome. I feel so insecure because I fear the fact that she may have second thoughts about us and I always feel like I have to look out for this kid and it is keeping me from living my life. What should I do?
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Stop comparing yourself to this guy. They almost got together, but they never actually did. She chose you every time. Clearly you mean more to her than he does.
Also, if she ever did leave you for this guy, she is obviously a bit of a whore. I'm assuming you have better taste in women than this though, so I'm sure she will be loyal to you.
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Miss Piggy
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You have to first take it easy and try to change the way you think because really, there is no need to worry about that girl.
This is just the 1st amongst many girls that you shall meet in future so try to go slow or you will end up heartbroken because not every girl is meant for you...take it easy, and let it go...look at other avenues for better love my friend...or lust...whichever suits you, you just need to take it slow with them girls!
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All I have to say is that you will have to focus on yourself and not this other guy. You are insecure, you point that out. Good for you. You will just have to try and keep this guy out of your head. If anything, talk to your girlfriend.
You will find what you want to do in life. It just takes time :)
You will be okay, just stop obsessing over this guy!! You shouldn't be looking out for him.
- Hardcore-Band-Geek
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